69. Crisis

[adapted from my monthly column, For Goodness' Sake, in Front Porch Magazine]

Thank God for emergencies. Sometimes that’s the only way we humans can stand to be nice to each other.

In the 1960’s comedy classic, “The Russians are Coming! The Russians are Coming!“, a handful of Soviet submariners is forced ashore on a tiny New England island. One hilarity leads to another as they sneak around, trying to make their way back to the Motherland. Before long, little old ladies are wailing about waves of invading Russian parachutists while the sheriff struggles to restore order. (Jonathan Winters is priceless as the blustering deputy who shouts to “organize” amid the mayhem.)

While I won’t ruin the film by telling all the good bits or the ending, I’ll say that this movie illustrates the unifying power of crisis. Many guns are pointed at many people, and we see ordinarily adversarial relationships healed by moments of need.

It’s a shame, but sometimes we need such an urgent, common cause to get out of our own heads.

We read that the Titanic tragedy was another example of the finer qualities of humanity shining forth, when men unanimously assisted women and children onto the limited number of rafts in the sure knowledge that they themselves would perish. (Well, unanimously except for that one sleazy weasel, or sleazel, who was trying to get Leonardo’s girlfriend – but we all saw that coming!)

The massive recovery effort for September 11th involved thousands of dissimilar individuals. We didn’t hear of people refusing to pull a broken survivor from the rubble because he was of the wrong complexion, faith, or political party. When billions of global citizens and their leaders stood to condemn the monstrous evil of those attacks, there was a pause in rivalries…a pause in mindless self interest.

Wouldn’t we like to feel that again, but without the senseless loss of innocent life? Wouldn’t it be nice to rise above our perpetual squabbling over stale bread crusts and focus instead on cooperatively making truckloads of fresh loaves?

I have criticized Congress for its divisive diversions in running this country. Granted, it’s an easy target, but isn’t this justifiably so? After all, don’t those lofty seats exist not as the privileged rulers of a nation of subjects, but as the first servants of all others in this great experiment of democracy?

The partisan Senate vote is a pitiful sight. Such vast power spent opposing the other and protecting political territory. Could not that tremendous energy be harnessed to press forward, instead of sideways?

I’ll continue to challenge our legislators when they don’t serve us – at least until I become a member myself…at which point I’ll dig deep for the courage to be still more critical of Congress and all national leaders, for the benefit of all.

I write For Goodness’ Sake and PowerfulPeace.net because I believe it is possible to work together without crisis. In fact, I’ve watched it happen - and helped it happen - in dozens of countries around the world.

We have the capacity to look beneath the surface of another, whether from our point of view he has too many earrings or not enough, and discover that person’s unique potential. In practice, however, it is much more common to judge the book by its cover.

Here’s the punch line! I am the first victim of my contempting another. I discard a person who might otherwise be able to help me at some point. Is this casual contempt based on his appearance, or some affiliation?

Am I not then perpetuating partisan thinking?

Besides the obvious abandonment of that person’s potential positive contribution in my life, I also invite negative feedback/retaliation from anyone that I disregard or mistreat.

How stupid can one person be? And yet we do it…by the billions.

I propose that we practice Smart Power at the individual level. Let’s open our minds, look for the value in those unlike ourselves, and discover how alike we are. This is “smart power to the people”.

We can work together without depending on crisis for motivation. At some point, this cooperation even averts some crisis.

And finally, there is just one more thing: get a copy of “The Russians are Coming! The Russians are Coming!” Seriously. You could use a good laugh.

Copyright © 2009 by Jack Oatmon. All rights reserved.

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